Are Youth Groups Magic?
I've heard complaints about various churches over the years, and often enough, the complaints have to do with church youth groups. Some churches don't have youth groups, so people think they should. Those churches with youth groups invariably get rapped for not running the youth groups right. So what's a church to do?
I'm beginning to wonder if a lot of parents in our society are used to parenting by proxy (as Dr. Laura calls it). They have daycare, they have public or private schools, they have sports teams, etc., to enroll their kids in and watch them taught, coached, trained and entertained. But when the time comes that they have problems... they think they need another program to enroll their kids in.
Perhaps the more fundamental question is this... what are you hoping you'll find in the youth group that you can't do yourself? Is it training? Socializing? Exposure to something in particular that doesn't exist outside of youth groups? In reality, every parent has the opportunity to arrange any and all of this without the formal existance of a youth group. Often enough, formal ministries have emerged from informal roots, where parents decide to meet with a handful of other parents with kids the same age, to arrange things they can do together. Maybe it's up to you as parents to make adult friends with other like-minded families. Once you adults know each other, you can put your heads together and think of things to do as families.
There really aren't magic youth groups out there just waiting for you to call. But wherever you live, there are opportunities for you to take action, and just maybe, help out other parents with similiar views and concerns about their own kids.
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